Љубомора и поверење у браку: допринос когнитивних шема и брачне усклађености

Dragana Z. Stanojević; Olivera B. Radović; Biljana M. Jaredić

doi:10.5937/zrffp55-62204

Dragana Z. Stanojević Univerzitet u Prištini sa privremenim sedištem u Kosovskoj Mitrovici, Filozofski fakultet, Katedra za psihologiju https://orcid.org/0000-0002-9310-9528
Olivera B. Radović Univerzitet u Prištini sa privremenim sedištem u Kosovskoj Mitrovici, Filozofski fakultet, Katedra za psihologiju https://orcid.org/0000-0003-1845-7108
Biljana M. Jaredić Univerzitet u Prištini sa privremenim sedištem u Kosovskoj Mitrovici, Filozofski fakultet, Katedra za psihologiju https://orcid.org/0000-0002-8679-1055

DOI: https://doi.org/10.5937/zrffp55-62204

Ključne reči: љубомора, поверење, когнитивне шеме, брачна усклађеност

Sažetak

Љубомора и поверење су осећања која карактеришу многе блиске односе, посебно романтичне везе. Могу бити подстакнути различитим унутрашњим и спољашњим факторима. У овом раду испитано је да ли се и на основу којих когнитивних шема и брачне усклађености могу предвиђати три аспекта љубоморе и поверења према партнеру. Узорак је чинило 177 испитаника који су у званичном или незваничном браку, узраста 20 до 69 година. Од тог броја, 34,1% били су мушкарци. Коришћени су следећи инструменти: Мултидимензионална скала љубоморе (Pfeiffer & Wong, 1989), Скала поверења у вези (Larzelere & Huston, 1980), Јангов упитник когнитивних шема – кратка верзија (Young, 1998) и Упитник брачне усклађености (Ćubela Adorić, 2002). Добијени резултати показали су да се когнитивни аспект љубоморе може предвидети на основу емоционалне депривације и брачне усклађености, емоционални на основу недовољне самоконтроле, а понашајни на основу дефектности/срамоте и неповерења/злоупотребе. Поверење се може предвиђати на основу емоционалне депривације, права/ грандиозности и брачне усклађености. Добијени резултати указују на могућности да се терапијом усмереном на корекцију маладаптивних шема и снажење брачне усклађености може поправљати однос између брачних партнера.

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